Career Development Tip #6: E-mail, Our Best Friend And Worst Nightmare


Career Development Tip #6: E-mail, Our Best Friend And Worst Nightmare

After getting busted for passing a note to a friend and suffering the humiliation of having it read aloud in class (henceforth known as the Adam Metcalf saga) I decided to take my grandfather's advice.  His advice was "never put anything in writing that you wouldn't want printed in the New York Times".  E-mail is great for sending detailed information, scheduling, relating facts and more.
Improper E-mail usage can destroy credibility, professional relationships and serious liability issues for your company.  Here are a few thoughts to consider:
  • Sending out good news, praise for a job well done, or other positive information via e-mail is great, be sure to follow it up with a verbal affirmation when you next see the person.
  • It is not very effective to try to replace a meeting with e-mail.  It leads to these long e-mail strings that multiple people have to read and re-read to track.  If a topic bears discussion, it probably is better to have a discussion.
  • Difficult conversations should be just that, conversations. Sending difficult to deliver conversations via E-mail is passive aggressive, at best. Don't send e-mails that relate you are upset, dissatisfied or angry. Instead, schedule a time to talk either in person or via phone. While difficult, it both gives and garners respect.
  • Following up a meeting with "meeting notes" via e-mail is incredibly effective to ensure you are on the same page. 
  • Be mindful, whatever you put in e-mail can be forwarded, posted and used in a way you did not intend.  Confidential information simply should not be transmitted via e-mail. See Grandpa Clem rule stated above.  
  • Only reply-all if the entire recipient list needs your reply.   
We all get way too much e-mail, thus the term "E-mail jail" has been coined.  E-mail now falls under the category of "speak less to be heard more".  Using e-mail properly will ensure those you work with will respect you, read your E-mails and take appropriate action. 

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